When an sms was sent to the wrong party, you-know-how-it feels like.. rite? yes??

Had an interesting conversation with bev over dinner. Should marriage be based on love. only?? or other factors as well. One factor her mum's criteria was; the Man must be able to provide for the girl........

Then i just went to google on it. And guess what answers I get??

Answer:

"Should marriage be based on love or other factors?"

Love maybe a factor but it is also a partnership that should be looked upon as a business agreement. Everyone must bring something to the table.


Answer:
"Love... should be looked upon as a business agreement."

Untrue. A true loving marriage should never rely on who can or can't do something. If you go into a marriage expecting certain things to happen, then it is more of a contract than a covenant. A marriage is not meant to be looked at as something that "he does this, she does that" but should instead be "WE can work together to make things happen."

And what type of love is marriage based on?

Here's what i've found...


'Marriage used to be a wonderful thing that united to people who are in True Love. Now, most marriges are of marriages of convinence, because they want money, some-one to do jobs, take care of things they dont want to do, or for material items.

There is still some love in the world, and some times, people who are truly meant for each other get married, and the reason for their marrige is not convience, or money, but that love that they make. That love that is so true, and special it is theirs, and no-one can change that'

I'm now beginning to wonder... like ever since I had the thinking that love is not the pillar of life... and Tubbie corrected me that Love IS the pillar of life... yea... this is a debatable topic. I guess generation changes along the way. oh well~

Vday passed not long ago. Tubbie gave me one of the best card i ever had. I love to see his heartfelt words written on the card, specially for me. (= (Hehe! Visual personality of me!)


A very sweet card...


...with extermely meaningful, heartwarming words.

Tuubie's heartfelt words really touched my heart. (= I really love the Tubbie like this, a lot a lot!! (= In this post I want to let Tubbie know that I love you very much and thank you for making the effort to make me smile no matter what, no matter how much you really wished I could control my diet and refrain from eating those heavy densed, high sugar popcorns (esp from Garett!), nevertheless, you still give in to me. (= I love you dearest love (: (:

Next Up, WORK! My work revolves around My RO. Seriously. And he has a roller coaster mood. Sometimes good, tt's when the times joking with him is perfectly fine and I prefer him this way obviously, and there are times his face is black like king kong, you dont know when he is gonna blast at you. I have never hated him. No matter how many times I can tell he is super irritated by me, in fact deep down I know he is a really nice boss. I respect him a lot and I can take any shit from him, yeah, it is always, always better than taking other ppl's shit. like duh?! haha! Cos at work he is always there to protect me from shit work tt others throw at me. (= Hehe. Imagine my Tubbie at work, he will take care of me even more. Hehe. I will love working. No need to study liao. Haaaaaa!! ;P

Greetings love ones... ( deng.. deng deng deng~ ... from Katy Perry-California Gurls~ haha!)
3rd day of CNY and i have to get ready for tuition soon, at 10am. Today's post. Once again, i wanna mention smth that Tubbie love made an impact in my life. This silly boy is young and amazingly smart, full of common knowledge, EQ etc. (or maybe i'm just too amazingly stupid -.-)

If i say... Love is the pillar of life. How many would agree? Initially, i disagreed. I want to say that one shouldnt depend on love, that in life is not everything abt seeking for a partner. Because why? Because love can be amazing, but at the same time, love can hurt, love can kill. Love has its Angel and Devil side. Love can be dangerous, with the wrong ppl.

Tubbie made my thinking changed. It does makes sense in some ways though. Hmmmmz.