When an sms was sent to the wrong party, you-know-how-it feels like.. rite? yes??

Had an interesting conversation with bev over dinner. Should marriage be based on love. only?? or other factors as well. One factor her mum's criteria was; the Man must be able to provide for the girl........

Then i just went to google on it. And guess what answers I get??

Answer:

"Should marriage be based on love or other factors?"

Love maybe a factor but it is also a partnership that should be looked upon as a business agreement. Everyone must bring something to the table.


Answer:
"Love... should be looked upon as a business agreement."

Untrue. A true loving marriage should never rely on who can or can't do something. If you go into a marriage expecting certain things to happen, then it is more of a contract than a covenant. A marriage is not meant to be looked at as something that "he does this, she does that" but should instead be "WE can work together to make things happen."

And what type of love is marriage based on?

Here's what i've found...


'Marriage used to be a wonderful thing that united to people who are in True Love. Now, most marriges are of marriages of convinence, because they want money, some-one to do jobs, take care of things they dont want to do, or for material items.

There is still some love in the world, and some times, people who are truly meant for each other get married, and the reason for their marrige is not convience, or money, but that love that they make. That love that is so true, and special it is theirs, and no-one can change that'

I'm now beginning to wonder... like ever since I had the thinking that love is not the pillar of life... and Tubbie corrected me that Love IS the pillar of life... yea... this is a debatable topic. I guess generation changes along the way. oh well~