Just came home after meeting a friend who shared with me his problems with his ex-gf. Well, not that i will expose anything private abt his life but just wanna mention some general erm, 'problem' with girls these days.
I absolutely hate the fact that girls have this thinking when guys go on a date with a girl, the guy will HAVE TO PAY for everything? Like wth? Excuse me spoilt brats ( or "princesses-in-their-dreams") that exists in this society right now, your bf is not your next atm machine for goodness sake. And having such a thinking really makes me pity you that you are living on another planet with a pathetic immatured mindset. Ok YES! Guys should be more 'gentlemen' in that sense, but not with that concept that a 'gentlemen' MUST include PAYING for everything in a date. IF i'm a guy and my gf has such a thinking, i rather give up on such girls pls. I dont understand why girls cant be more understanding and be a little more 'matured' pls. What i mean 'matured' is like, you cant rely on a guy forever. A girl with no independence is just like an egg . (ok i know this is a lousy example HAHA). You see, just picture an egg on your mind. if an egg is not placed on the egg tray, do you think it can stand up straight? IT CAN NEVER BE STRAIGHT. it just keeps erm... 'wobbling' hahahaha!! what a word to describe it. But when an egg has the egg tray (in this case, the egg tray is sort of referring to the word independence.) Then it is able to stand on this own.
Ok i know im not attached and girls may think that "I DONT KNOW" cos i nv go thru it. But it's pretty obvious that you've got to think for the other party right? Who exactly is truely giving and loving in a relationship? the guy or the girl or BOTH the guy & the girl? Shouldnt the answer be the 3rd one? If you really love your bf a lot, instead of always thinking for and ABOUT yourself, can you also think for and ABOUT him? If you expect your bf to fufill his role as being a bf, i think u girls should also fufill your role as a gf. The least your bf really needs from you is your understanding. And also to mention in another scenario, even if you are short of money, u can go on a date tt's really "budget" kind. A date doesnt mean wad, go watch movie, eat luxurious dinner etc etc. A date can also mean spending time at a beach or go rollerblading/cycling or.. ahh!! one romantic 'budget' date is i feel la, the bf rides bicycle and the gf will sit behind him on the bike. then can cycle around and dinner could be worth 90cents per person, which is eating cup noodles tgt outside 7-eleven. Then cycle back home. Isn't this sweet enough? Like more creative instead of those typical Date = Dinner + Movie. -_- Be more creative la. I tink i can be a damn good bf la. HAHAHA.
I rmb i did a test b4. It is like a magic test la. If there is a supernatural magic power to be cast onto you. What would you want to get?
A) A sex transfomation
B) The power to be able to fly
C) Immortality
D) The power to read ppl's mind
Haha. I was in a dilema to choose btwn A and D. And i really cannot decide man. haha because i really wanted both. And of cos imagine i can change my sex to become a guy. I like the challenge of chasing a girl of my dreams. Cant possibly a girl chasing a guy... erm... ok sry im kinda traditional a bit. ya i knw now the generation is different. Girls also do make the first move now a days but sorry i dont wanna be in that category YET. haha!
Another problem that my friend faced is the gf would erm, initiate for breakups unexpectedly without valid reasons. Anyway a word for guys, should your gf throw temper at you unnecessarily, first, pls find out if she is having her period, pre and post period in fact. Because when woman goes thru this stage every month, their mood is never good. so its actually quite normal for them to feel foul and moodless. And if they say smth harsh tt really hurts your heart at tt point of time. PLS give them a chance. I know as girls we are at fault that we couldnt control our mood/feelings/emotions or whatever, just everything tgt la, i'm sry tt we failed to put ourselves in your shoes, i'm sry tt we failed to understand that venting our frustration on you doesnt improve our condition (during those few days when we are having our menses) at all but they say it accidentally. It's really accidentally and it WASN'T serious. So i really hope guys please forgive your gf for saying words tt hurt your heart cos eventually after our period is over, we will eventually reflect and realise what we've said that hurt your heart, then after tt we're surely make the first move to apologize to you.
My friend did asked me what kind of guys tt i'm attracted to. It's quite difficult to answer him cos the answer you give might not be what you will get when you finally be in a relationship. Is like an eg. i told him, I will say, i dont like guys who smoke, but i might end up liking a guy, who happens to have a habit of smoking -_- so that's a ... point which i really dont like but i still cant deny the fact tt i have some feelings for him u see. I cant give a solid answer but i think i can say is im better off a good friend rather than a girlfriend. Gd friends also can show care and concern to what. Just that the difference is u cant be intimate with them or stay at their place kind of thing? HAHAHA.
Actually if u asked me whether i'm waiting for my Mr Right. I tell you, i'm waiting to achieve my dream career. Hahaha! Cos to be honest, im quite a career-minded woman. I see my career as my no. 1 importance in my life but it seems tt after doing some personality test, Friendship to me is like my precious gold. I dont get to experience true friendship which is actually smth i really really wished i could have in my life. since i dont have it, so my next thing i would strife to achieve is my dream career lor.
Ok what a long entry. sry man. i cant wait to bathe and go to the gym! feeling so damn sticky. yucks. maybe i shld go gym tml instead since i've made an effort to run 40mins ytd. Gd job irene! (: hopefully i'll have energy to run 40mins tml. I HOPE! haha.
Saturday, May 30, 2009
Sunday, April 26, 2009
QUIZBOX
What does being a friend really mean to you?
You value your friendships: 75%
You love your friends very much (obviously) - so much so that it's actually quite a worry. (oh.. ok) You may not be able to cope very well when you do lose somebody's friendship. (that's true) You are a very sensitive and fragile person (i admit it), and are therefore likely to get upset easily. (yes) You care for your friends and are willing to do anything that they ask you to do. (yes.)Sometimes this can make your friends think that you are a bit of a nuisance. (thanks.. now i knw that i am one...) Nevertheless, people do really love you because your highest priority is your friends. (really?? not convincing)
Your Hidden Talent
Here is the analysis:
The Artist
You love freedom and want to follow your heart's desires. You might not be at your best when dealing with other people. Once you are given the opportunity to work your chosen way, your gift will shine. A tip for you is not to concentrate too much on your own work, but widen your focus and consider the opinions of other people.
The Eating Test
Here is the analysis:
You've made your way well in this world despite all the obstacles you've had to faced. You have survived a lot more troubles than most people. You have had to deal with difficult people, ridiculous rules, and tempestuous relationships.
Love for you can be as intense as the fire on the face of the sun. You are either very calm on the inside when there is a lot of insanity going on around you, or you shut people up and take charge. You can go to a movie by yourself. (This is true) You are as comfortable alone as you are with others. You are angry at your parents but you can't change them. (SO true!)
You are a great lover (thanks thanks) when you find that rare mate who is your equal, otherwise your relationships do not go well. Life is a roller coaster, and you are finding ways to make the good times better. You love sports. (huh????)
Psychological Test
Here is the analysis:
You have a complicated personality. (maybe)
How ambitious you are depends on the height that you answered, which is: Top. (ya.. very!)
You are stubborn, the size of this personality as seen by others is big. (ok then...)
Glass means fragile personality. (after seeing other tests analysis... i guess i am.)
You are also down-to-earth.
You are an opportunist.
Your husband or wife is the one you need when you are in trouble.
The Real You
Here is the analysis:
You are a very serious person. You tend to be quiet and well behaved, and you don't have a great deal of self-confidence. You prefer to be alone rather than with friends and that could make you a little less interesting to certain types of guys. You are very attractive in an individual kind of way, and this means it can take people a little while to get to like you.
You don't really care about other people's feelings. (......) You do things the way you want and usually think only about yourself. (.........) You are easy-going and love to have fun, but you can be irresponsible as well. You are not keen on serious discussions because they can make you remember that life isn't always about parties.
You strictly follow rules, and you expect other people to be the same as well. People can get tired of you easily, as you can make them feel a little guilty about themselves. You always make decisions on your own, and can be dismissive of other people's advice. You like to be the leader in groups, but can forget to be concerned about the people you are with.
Guys see you as being a thinker and a careful person. They will be really attracted to this quality in you, but you need to learn to speak your mind, otherwise people will find you too shy and quiet. Learn to relax and lighten up--it's okay to have fun sometimes. When you learn to develop your fun-loving side, guys are going to flock to your side. (i dont even know what is my fun-loving side)
Your boyfriend believes that you are a strong and independent person. Your confidence and cheerfulness make you an attractive person to be around, but sometimes you need to pay more attention to what other people, including your boyfriend, are thinking.
What's on Your Mind?
Here is the analysis:
You think money and love are equally important. (NO... $$$ is more impt NOW. logically speaking.) You have an interest in many things in life, and work hard to ensure that you maintain a healthy balance between work, play and love. However, you tend to be unable to decide on what you really want to do with your life. You wouldn't dream of leaving your loved one for one or two million dollars, but you would have to reconsider if the offer rose to 100 million dollars. (yesyesyes!! hahahaha. OK!! I WILL LEAVE!!)
Get to know yourself better
Your view on yourself:
Other people find you very interesting, but you are really hiding your true self. Your friends love you because you are a good listener. They'll probably still love you if you learn to be yourself with them. (..... SHUT UP!)
The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:
You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes.
Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You prefer to get to know a person very well before deciding whether you will commit to the relationship.
The seriousness of your love:
You are very serious about relationships and aren't interested in wasting time with people you don't really like. If you meet the right person, you will fall deeply and beautifully in love. (dont let it happen pls)
Your views on education:
You may not like to study but you have many practical ideas. You listen to your own instincts and tend to follow your heart, so you will probably end up with an unusual job.
The right job for you:
You have many goals and want to achieve as much as you can. The jobs you enjoy are those that let you burn off your considerable excess energy.
How do you view success:
You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don't succeed. Don't give up when you haven't yet even started! Be courageous.
What are you most afraid of:
You are concerned about your image and the way others see you. This means that you try very hard to be accepted by other people. It's time for you to believe in who you are, not what you wear.
Who is your true self:
You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.
You value your friendships: 75%
You love your friends very much (obviously) - so much so that it's actually quite a worry. (oh.. ok) You may not be able to cope very well when you do lose somebody's friendship. (that's true) You are a very sensitive and fragile person (i admit it), and are therefore likely to get upset easily. (yes) You care for your friends and are willing to do anything that they ask you to do. (yes.)Sometimes this can make your friends think that you are a bit of a nuisance. (thanks.. now i knw that i am one...) Nevertheless, people do really love you because your highest priority is your friends. (really?? not convincing)
Your Hidden Talent
Here is the analysis:
The Artist
You love freedom and want to follow your heart's desires. You might not be at your best when dealing with other people. Once you are given the opportunity to work your chosen way, your gift will shine. A tip for you is not to concentrate too much on your own work, but widen your focus and consider the opinions of other people.
The Eating Test
Here is the analysis:
You've made your way well in this world despite all the obstacles you've had to faced. You have survived a lot more troubles than most people. You have had to deal with difficult people, ridiculous rules, and tempestuous relationships.
Love for you can be as intense as the fire on the face of the sun. You are either very calm on the inside when there is a lot of insanity going on around you, or you shut people up and take charge. You can go to a movie by yourself. (This is true) You are as comfortable alone as you are with others. You are angry at your parents but you can't change them. (SO true!)
You are a great lover (thanks thanks) when you find that rare mate who is your equal, otherwise your relationships do not go well. Life is a roller coaster, and you are finding ways to make the good times better. You love sports. (huh????)
Psychological Test
Here is the analysis:
You have a complicated personality. (maybe)
How ambitious you are depends on the height that you answered, which is: Top. (ya.. very!)
You are stubborn, the size of this personality as seen by others is big. (ok then...)
Glass means fragile personality. (after seeing other tests analysis... i guess i am.)
You are also down-to-earth.
You are an opportunist.
Your husband or wife is the one you need when you are in trouble.
The Real You
Here is the analysis:
You are a very serious person. You tend to be quiet and well behaved, and you don't have a great deal of self-confidence. You prefer to be alone rather than with friends and that could make you a little less interesting to certain types of guys. You are very attractive in an individual kind of way, and this means it can take people a little while to get to like you.
You don't really care about other people's feelings. (......) You do things the way you want and usually think only about yourself. (.........) You are easy-going and love to have fun, but you can be irresponsible as well. You are not keen on serious discussions because they can make you remember that life isn't always about parties.
You strictly follow rules, and you expect other people to be the same as well. People can get tired of you easily, as you can make them feel a little guilty about themselves. You always make decisions on your own, and can be dismissive of other people's advice. You like to be the leader in groups, but can forget to be concerned about the people you are with.
Guys see you as being a thinker and a careful person. They will be really attracted to this quality in you, but you need to learn to speak your mind, otherwise people will find you too shy and quiet. Learn to relax and lighten up--it's okay to have fun sometimes. When you learn to develop your fun-loving side, guys are going to flock to your side. (i dont even know what is my fun-loving side)
Your boyfriend believes that you are a strong and independent person. Your confidence and cheerfulness make you an attractive person to be around, but sometimes you need to pay more attention to what other people, including your boyfriend, are thinking.
What's on Your Mind?
Here is the analysis:
You think money and love are equally important. (NO... $$$ is more impt NOW. logically speaking.) You have an interest in many things in life, and work hard to ensure that you maintain a healthy balance between work, play and love. However, you tend to be unable to decide on what you really want to do with your life. You wouldn't dream of leaving your loved one for one or two million dollars, but you would have to reconsider if the offer rose to 100 million dollars. (yesyesyes!! hahahaha. OK!! I WILL LEAVE!!)
Get to know yourself better
Your view on yourself:
Other people find you very interesting, but you are really hiding your true self. Your friends love you because you are a good listener. They'll probably still love you if you learn to be yourself with them. (..... SHUT UP!)
The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:
You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes.
Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You prefer to get to know a person very well before deciding whether you will commit to the relationship.
The seriousness of your love:
You are very serious about relationships and aren't interested in wasting time with people you don't really like. If you meet the right person, you will fall deeply and beautifully in love. (dont let it happen pls)
Your views on education:
You may not like to study but you have many practical ideas. You listen to your own instincts and tend to follow your heart, so you will probably end up with an unusual job.
The right job for you:
You have many goals and want to achieve as much as you can. The jobs you enjoy are those that let you burn off your considerable excess energy.
How do you view success:
You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don't succeed. Don't give up when you haven't yet even started! Be courageous.
What are you most afraid of:
You are concerned about your image and the way others see you. This means that you try very hard to be accepted by other people. It's time for you to believe in who you are, not what you wear.
Who is your true self:
You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.
Tuesday, October 21, 2008
peanut butter JAM
Yes ah!! It has been @%!#& years since we last went Jamming. I vaguely remember how much we really do proper Jamming kind~ but i remember the last place we jammed was at Aljunied. Ytd was our first time Jamming at Simei. Simei??? omg. I stayed in Simei how long already and i dont even know there is a place for Jamming. What a noob i am. haha.
So ytd was just Adelene, Cecilia, Shu Yin and Me. Initially Twins and I went to the Library to print out some songs. Abt 4 of them and sadly... the only song which we fare rather well at was by A.L's When You're Gone. AND... we did Stand By Me too. Haha. But i keep screwing it up especially the melody part. Shu Yin's voice really power but i just cant catch up with her, i'm still not that good at all, but anyways we did have fun. Adelene was the all-rounder kind. Drums no problem, Guitar also no kick, become Vocalist also peanuts man... haha. And Cc.. from guitar then suddenly play the base. haha. Shu Yin ah, needless to say, ultimate pro as the Vocalist and skilled in Drums (: and as for me... i only know a little bit of guitar and that's a fullstop. haha.
So school today was another boring day. I actually missed APEL class in the morning 8am -.- Where got time??... Oh and i got back my SIP appraisal marks; I was hoping for 5 but i got a 4.5 out of 5. Haha. So its alright. Better than 4 so i should feel happy (:
So the first week of school begins, already, MP today is like autoclaving the peptone water again (dont know the number whatth time already-.-) and please please dont be contaminated. My bag weighed like an atomic bomb tdy; TWO lab coats behind my back.. ahh yooo~ And today was the first PDM (Product Development & Marketing) lect, forever the same, project again. And between line extension, "Me Too" and product innovation. Of course 3rd option is da most challenging kind; imagine creating a brand new product, new flavour... You hear before bubble tea's drink Blue Coral ? What if there's a new flavour called... Black Rose Cat ? WHAHAHAHA... Omg.. WHY on earth did this idea even come into my mind? Black Rose Cat is like Rihanna's email address kind? hahahaha. damn lame la wth. If she ever sees this she's so gonna rofl. :D
So ytd was just Adelene, Cecilia, Shu Yin and Me. Initially Twins and I went to the Library to print out some songs. Abt 4 of them and sadly... the only song which we fare rather well at was by A.L's When You're Gone. AND... we did Stand By Me too. Haha. But i keep screwing it up especially the melody part. Shu Yin's voice really power but i just cant catch up with her, i'm still not that good at all, but anyways we did have fun. Adelene was the all-rounder kind. Drums no problem, Guitar also no kick, become Vocalist also peanuts man... haha. And Cc.. from guitar then suddenly play the base. haha. Shu Yin ah, needless to say, ultimate pro as the Vocalist and skilled in Drums (: and as for me... i only know a little bit of guitar and that's a fullstop. haha.
Well, Abel and company came to practise Jamming as well. Their song was nice, but hopefully tmr (which is the audition day) Abel's voice would be louder than the guitars and drums. Abel really can sing too. But, i just felt that the song they played That Thing You Do would sound nicer than their current song; "Valerie". Haha. Oops. Maybe because i didn hear "Valerie" before. But after i watch Youtube's "Valerie" and hear Abel's version one... ... hmmm... erm... ... haha. nvm ... just pray for the best for them. I believe they really put in their best effort... so... May the best Group wins. (:
So school today was another boring day. I actually missed APEL class in the morning 8am -.- Where got time??... Oh and i got back my SIP appraisal marks; I was hoping for 5 but i got a 4.5 out of 5. Haha. So its alright. Better than 4 so i should feel happy (:
So the first week of school begins, already, MP today is like autoclaving the peptone water again (dont know the number whatth time already-.-) and please please dont be contaminated. My bag weighed like an atomic bomb tdy; TWO lab coats behind my back.. ahh yooo~ And today was the first PDM (Product Development & Marketing) lect, forever the same, project again. And between line extension, "Me Too" and product innovation. Of course 3rd option is da most challenging kind; imagine creating a brand new product, new flavour... You hear before bubble tea's drink Blue Coral ? What if there's a new flavour called... Black Rose Cat ? WHAHAHAHA... Omg.. WHY on earth did this idea even come into my mind? Black Rose Cat is like Rihanna's email address kind? hahahaha. damn lame la wth. If she ever sees this she's so gonna rofl. :D
So after school i went to meet Shu Yin at Marina Square. We had Secret Recipe and i enjoyed my Kid's Burger. hahahaha!!! Went back to the East and that's when we met up with Cc and Matthew at Cafe Cartel. Had half price cakes and some chit chatting session. of course snapping pictures comes along with it. heh heh.
Ok Shu Yin, i wont deny the fact that you do have good photography skills at times (:
And ya, Matthew, surprisingly you look good in the picture above (:
Both of them paying full attention to Matthew's story..... hahahaha!! :D
Looking forward to Thursday... Because... Friday = No School !! :D hehe
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