Relationship - Just me or you or we?

Just came home after meeting a friend who shared with me his problems with his ex-gf. Well, not that i will expose anything private abt his life but just wanna mention some general erm, 'problem' with girls these days.

I absolutely hate the fact that girls have this thinking when guys go on a date with a girl, the guy will HAVE TO PAY for everything? Like wth? Excuse me spoilt brats ( or "princesses-in-their-dreams") that exists in this society right now, your bf is not your next atm machine for goodness sake. And having such a thinking really makes me pity you that you are living on another planet with a pathetic immatured mindset. Ok YES! Guys should be more 'gentlemen' in that sense, but not with that concept that a 'gentlemen' MUST include PAYING for everything in a date. IF i'm a guy and my gf has such a thinking, i rather give up on such girls pls. I dont understand why girls cant be more understanding and be a little more 'matured' pls. What i mean 'matured' is like, you cant rely on a guy forever. A girl with no independence is just like an egg . (ok i know this is a lousy example HAHA). You see, just picture an egg on your mind. if an egg is not placed on the egg tray, do you think it can stand up straight? IT CAN NEVER BE STRAIGHT. it just keeps erm... 'wobbling' hahahaha!! what a word to describe it. But when an egg has the egg tray (in this case, the egg tray is sort of referring to the word independence.) Then it is able to stand on this own.

Ok i know im not attached and girls may think that "I DONT KNOW" cos i nv go thru it. But it's pretty obvious that you've got to think for the other party right? Who exactly is truely giving and loving in a relationship? the guy or the girl or BOTH the guy & the girl? Shouldnt the answer be the 3rd one? If you really love your bf a lot, instead of always thinking for and ABOUT yourself, can you also think for and ABOUT him? If you expect your bf to fufill his role as being a bf, i think u girls should also fufill your role as a gf. The least your bf really needs from you is your understanding. And also to mention in another scenario, even if you are short of money, u can go on a date tt's really "budget" kind. A date doesnt mean wad, go watch movie, eat luxurious dinner etc etc. A date can also mean spending time at a beach or go rollerblading/cycling or.. ahh!! one romantic 'budget' date is i feel la, the bf rides bicycle and the gf will sit behind him on the bike. then can cycle around and dinner could be worth 90cents per person, which is eating cup noodles tgt outside 7-eleven. Then cycle back home. Isn't this sweet enough? Like more creative instead of those typical Date = Dinner + Movie. -_- Be more creative la. I tink i can be a damn good bf la. HAHAHA.

I rmb i did a test b4. It is like a magic test la. If there is a supernatural magic power to be cast onto you. What would you want to get?
A) A sex transfomation
B) The power to be able to fly
C) Immortality
D) The power to read ppl's mind

Haha. I was in a dilema to choose btwn A and D. And i really cannot decide man. haha because i really wanted both. And of cos imagine i can change my sex to become a guy. I like the challenge of chasing a girl of my dreams. Cant possibly a girl chasing a guy... erm... ok sry im kinda traditional a bit. ya i knw now the generation is different. Girls also do make the first move now a days but sorry i dont wanna be in that category YET. haha!

Another problem that my friend faced is the gf would erm, initiate for breakups unexpectedly without valid reasons. Anyway a word for guys, should your gf throw temper at you unnecessarily, first, pls find out if she is having her period, pre and post period in fact. Because when woman goes thru this stage every month, their mood is never good. so its actually quite normal for them to feel foul and moodless. And if they say smth harsh tt really hurts your heart at tt point of time. PLS give them a chance. I know as girls we are at fault that we couldnt control our mood/feelings/emotions or whatever, just everything tgt la, i'm sry tt we failed to put ourselves in your shoes, i'm sry tt we failed to understand that venting our frustration on you doesnt improve our condition (during those few days when we are having our menses) at all but they say it accidentally. It's really accidentally and it WASN'T serious. So i really hope guys please forgive your gf for saying words tt hurt your heart cos eventually after our period is over, we will eventually reflect and realise what we've said that hurt your heart, then after tt we're surely make the first move to apologize to you.

My friend did asked me what kind of guys tt i'm attracted to. It's quite difficult to answer him cos the answer you give might not be what you will get when you finally be in a relationship. Is like an eg. i told him, I will say, i dont like guys who smoke, but i might end up liking a guy, who happens to have a habit of smoking -_- so that's a ... point which i really dont like but i still cant deny the fact tt i have some feelings for him u see. I cant give a solid answer but i think i can say is im better off a good friend rather than a girlfriend. Gd friends also can show care and concern to what. Just that the difference is u cant be intimate with them or stay at their place kind of thing? HAHAHA.

Actually if u asked me whether i'm waiting for my Mr Right. I tell you, i'm waiting to achieve my dream career. Hahaha! Cos to be honest, im quite a career-minded woman. I see my career as my no. 1 importance in my life but it seems tt after doing some personality test, Friendship to me is like my precious gold. I dont get to experience true friendship which is actually smth i really really wished i could have in my life. since i dont have it, so my next thing i would strife to achieve is my dream career lor.

Ok what a long entry. sry man. i cant wait to bathe and go to the gym! feeling so damn sticky. yucks. maybe i shld go gym tml instead since i've made an effort to run 40mins ytd. Gd job irene! (: hopefully i'll have energy to run 40mins tml. I HOPE! haha.